How many bridesmaids is too many?

How many bridesmaids is too many?

Posted by Model Chic on 24th Oct 2022

Bridesmaids and groomsmen, or just "maids" and "grooms," are two of the most important roles in your wedding. They're your closest friends and family members who are there to support you on your big day — but they also have a lot of responsibilities!

When it comes to deciding how many bridesmaids to have, there is no right or wrong answer! You can decide to have no maids at all, you may even have thought to yourself “Can I have a Male Bridesmaid?” and the answer is YES. Follow along to discover your perfect number of bridesmaids!

How many bridesmaids should I have?

The number of bridesmaids is an entirely personal decision — there's no right or wrong answer here. However, if you're unsure about how many bridesmaids to include in your wedding party, consider these factors:

How many people do you want at your altar? While it's nice to have all of your closest friends and family at your ceremony, it's also important that they can make it! If they live far away or are busy with other obligations (like work), they may not be able to attend.

How many attendants do you need for photos? When taking photos before the ceremony (and after!), maids and groomsmen often line up behind the bride or groom.

Choose your closest friends

There's no point in choosing a bridesmaid if you're not going to be close to them. It's a big honour, and you want to make sure that the person you choose is someone who will be there for you on your wedding day — and beyond.

That being said, there are other things to consider when picking your bridal party, such as their availability and what they can contribute to the wedding planning process.

If you're having an outdoor ceremony or a beach wedding, it may be hard to find someone who can stand in the hot sun all day — but if she's your best friend, then maybe she'll do it anyway!

Go with what makes you happy

If you want to have a large bridal party, that's fine! If you'd rather have a smaller group of close friends and family members, that's also fine! The point is to get married and have fun on your big day. So do whatever makes you happy.

There are some tips for getting the most out of your bridal party, though:

1) Don't be afraid to ask for help. Your maid of honour is usually one of your best friends — someone who will support your wedding vision wholeheartedly and be there for you when things get tough. She'll also likely be more than happy to help with planning and coordinating tasks like sending out save-the-date cards or finding vendors.

2) Choose friends and family members who will share your vision for the wedding and be supportive throughout the process.

3) Consider how far away some people will live from where your wedding will take place.

4) Don't feel obligated to include someone in your wedding party due to family ties or expectations. It's your special day and you should be surrounded by your favourite people.

Let them choose dresses they are comfortable in

The best thing about having a big group of bridesmaids is that you can give them the freedom to choose their own dresses. If you're looking for a colour, let them choose from a palette. If you have a specific dress in mind, ask them to try it on before you buy it. And if they want to wear shoes other than those you suggested, let them! It's important for them to feel comfortable and confident on your big day — especially when they're giving you so much help!

Consider your wedding theme and colour scheme

First, consider the style of the wedding — is it formal or informal? Are you having an outdoor ceremony and reception? Do you want to incorporate certain colours in your decorating scheme?

Once you've answered these questions, you'll have a better idea of how to choose your bridesmaids dresses. For example, if you have a wedding party of four bridesmaids and one maid of honour, you can have six different looks for the girls. If you have a large bridal party, break it into groups of two or three and have each group wear a different dress style or colour. If you're having an all-white wedding, then pick out some different shades of white for each group so they can still look cohesive together.

Think about your bridesmaids' bodies before going dress shopping

If you want your bridesmaids to look like the best version of themselves on your wedding day, you need to think about their bodies.

As a bride, it's easy to get caught up in the idea of having a group of people who look exactly the same in your wedding party. But if you want your bridesmaids to feel good about themselves in their dresses, it's important that they're able to wear something that makes them feel confident and beautiful.

Think about their bodies before going dress shopping...

If you're picking out dresses together, consider these tips:

  • Don't assume that everyone will suit the same style or cut of bridesmaid dress. Its important to find a style that can accommodate different body types. For example, an infinity dress is a great option for a bridesmaids dress. It fits many body shapes and can also be wrapped in different styles. When you go dress shopping, don't forget there are lots of ways to alter dresses so they fit perfectly.
  • Don't rush into buying something just because it looks nice on someone else in the store — take your time finding something that looks great on everyone!

Ultimately, there should be no limit to the number of bridesmaids a bride wants in her wedding party. Whether it's three, six, ten or more, there are plenty of ways to achieve your ideal wedding day look and bring your girls together in the celebration of your new life together.